Saturday, June 15, 2013

When the Story is About Us

2 Samuel 12-1-7
Luke 7:36-50



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     Imagine a common scene: a family sits around the dinner table.  The mother is offering a bit of difficult but necessary wisdom to the teenager.  The teenager sits quietly—broodingly?—pondering.  The father, unaware of the dynamic as many fathers are, offers what he believes to be a word of encouragement.  “I believe what your mother is saying is…”  He never finishes.  The teenager looks up with a growl and says, “I KNOW what she is saying!”

            And such is the preacher’s lot with texts such as this.  And there are many texts such as this.  These are what we call parables, or simply the narrative itself.  In texts such as this the interaction of the character and dialogue is meant to stand as sufficient.  The meaning should be self-evident.  What more is there to say to Jesus’ words about love and forgiveness?  How does the preacher avoid being the one who says, “I believe what Jesus is saying is…” to a congregation that believes it knows what Jesus is saying.  Silence, not sermons, may be the more appropriate response to texts such as this.

            Yet I will take the risk and say something in hopes that we might hear not only what Jesus says to Simon but also what Jesus says to us.  The situation of the story is straightforward enough.  A Pharisee named Simon has invited Jesus to dinner.  This is a common strategy we see played out all the time.  Whoever is the hot ticket, whoever has the buzz, that is the one we want to be seen with.  Jesus is the latest thing.  He has been on all the late night television shows after that resurrection trick he pulled at Nain.  Or maybe Simon has a different motive.  Remember the adage keep your friends close and your enemies closer?  But whatever the reason, Jesus is at table with a Pharisee and his friends.

            Simon the Pharisee and Jesus the Christ are at table together.  But there is someone else there, someone unexpected.  A woman.  A woman from the city.  A woman who is a sinner.  A woman who is a problem.  This woman is behind Jesus, in view of Simon, washing and anointing his feet.  We need to note carefully the language and is employed here.  Simon does not 
challenge Jesus directly.  That Simon uses the third person suggests that he is more mumbling to himself or those around him than challenging Jesus directly.  This moment foreshadows a similar encounter in chapter 15, when the Pharisees grumble that Jesus cavorts with sinners and tax collectors.  “This fellow welcomes sinners and eats with them.”  One could argue that, ironically, the Pharisee has done the same by welcoming Jesus and eating with him.  But that is for another time.  Here, as in chapter 15, Jesus is much like my third grade teacher.  You cannot grumble around him without getting caught.  And if you are caught, you can count on getting a story.

            Jesus tells a story of one creditor and two debtors.  One owes a great deal, the other much less.  The creditor forgives both debts.  Who will be more grateful?  The answer seems obvious to Simon.  The one who was forgiven more, he says, no doubt wondering what the relevance is.  Just so, says Jesus.

            Our Old Testament setting tells much the same tale.  When David decided to borrow Bathsheba from her husband while her husband was off fighting David’s war, he did so without much thought to consequence.  After all, he was king.  It was only after Bathsheba disclosed her pregnancy that David decided to take preventative measures.  After failing to entice Uriah, Bathsheba’s husband, to spend the night with her, David decided it was simpler to kill him.  Problem solved.  That is, until his court “story-teller” Nathan came to see him.

            Nathan told David a story about a poor man with a sheep.  He had little beyond the sheep, whom he loved.  There was a rich man with many sheep and, when one was required for a lavish banquet, the rich man bypassed his own collection and took the poor man’s only sheep and served it up with a side of mint jelly.  David, upon hearing of this towering injustice, was filled with rage.  As I am King, he proclaimed, such a man deserves death!  Let him repay four times the loss.

            David’s indignation is encouraging but his sensitivity is still lacking.  After all, this was not a property issue.  This was a love issue.  In Nathan’s story the poor man clearly loved the sheep and had no intention of serving it to anyone.  David sees the injustice, but does not see the emotional import.  He doesn’t understand that there are some things more important than property, assets, and privilege.  

            Which is why, I suppose, we still need sermons on stories.  When David heard the story he knew what the story was about.  That is, he knew what the story was about except that the story was about him.  When Simon heard the story it was tiresomely obvious what the moral of the story was.  What was harder to see is that the story was about him.  This is the joy and the sorrow of story.  Story opens us to levels of awareness that rational argument cannot penetrate.  Jesus and Nathan understood one of the first rules of engaging the audience; the emotional response.  The next, trickier step, is getting the audience to apply that emotional response to self awareness.

            Those of you with children; did you ever call your parents and complain about your child?  “You would not believe the words that come out of her mouth!”  “He just thinks everything should be laid out before him!”  “They don’t clean their room.”  When I was a kid my mother had a brilliant idea.  She folded the laundry and placed it in a bucket.  All of us kids had a bucket with our name on it.  We were supposed to take the bucket upstairs and put our clothes away.  Guess which Hawley child used to come down every morning, take clothes out of the bucket, and go back upstairs to get dressed?  Guess whose children do the same thing?

            Not that I complain.  I know where they get it.  But I am sure that I have done my share of complaining about other things, completely oblivious to the truth that I am the man.  Do you catch yourself gossiping with your neighbor about how so and so gossips so much?  We have words for this sort of thing: hypocrite or two-faced or insincere.  And sometimes that is the case.  But it is true for us all that we have a blind spot—some part of ourselves we cannot or chose not to look at very closely—and along will come a story to shine a bright light on our blind spot.

            When we hear stories that engage our sense of right and wrong, our “common” sense, the moral seems self-evident.  But it is a common characteristic of such stories that their lessons are more easily applied elsewhere than in our own hearts.  Simon understood well enough that if one is forgiven one hundred and another ten, the one forgiven one hundred will likely feel more relieved. David understood well enough that you should not raid another person’s house for things you already have.  What Simon, David, and commonly you and I fail to understand is that the story is about us.

            Bible stories are not just history and they are not just stories.   They are deep and penetrating examinations of what it means to be a human being, good and bad, in the presence of God.  This is the power of all stories that matter, that endure.  Stories serve not only as windows on the past but as mirrors for the present.  Stories that matter have the power to change us in ways that argument and lecture and a mountain of facts never can.  So Jesus told stories—stories designed to sneak up on us with their truth so that we end up inviting them in before we know what they have to say to us—sort of like how Simon invited Jesus to dinner unaware of what was in store for him.

            Had Nathan told David to his face he did a bad thing David would have excused and argued and evaded.  Had Jesus told Simon straight out that this woman was forgiven so get off her back, an argument would have ensued and little would be gained.  Rather, Nathan and Jesus invited David and Simon into the perilous world of self-discovery.  In our debt encumbered culture we can surely relate to Jesus’ question about which debtor would be more grateful.  Can we also see, by extension, the truth about love?

            Jesus’ story is the little story inside the bigger story that Luke is telling. In Luke’s story we note that the others at the table argue about forgiveness—who has it and who can offer it.  But Jesus never forgives this woman.  He simply observes that she is forgiven.  This explains her behavior.  For the one who is forgiven little loves little.  And the one who loves much is forgiven much.  By her love Jesus observes that she is a woman to whom much has been forgiven.  We are never told if Simon understands this.  Maybe, like David, Simon understood.  Maybe he went off and read psalm 51.  You love little, Simon, because you are forgiven little.  You love little, hence little do you forgive.

            Paul Tillich, a wonderful theologian and preacher, offered a sermon on this text.  Tillich reflected upon the social reality of his time which is the same in ours.  Why, he asked, do so many turn away from their righteous parents?  Why do they turn away from their righteous churches with their righteous pastors?  To escape judgment?  That is no doubt a part of it.  But, Tillich speculates, more often it is because they seek a love that is rooted in forgiveness, and that is a love the righteous cannot give.  There was a pastor of my acquaintance once in North Platte, Nebraska who lamented to me that it was getting harder and harder to find people for the church board.  “There are just not enough righteous people,” he lamented.  He might have had more luck filling the board with forgiven people.

            Tillich’s sermon on this text concludes this way and it can serve as the conclusion for us as well.  “The Church would be more the Church of Christ if it joined Jesus and not Simon in its encounter with those judged unacceptable.  Each of us who strive for righteousness would be more Christian if more were forgiven him, if he loved more, and if he could better resist the temptation to present himself as acceptable to God by his own righteous."

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